“Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you something to drink? When did we see you a stranger and invite you in, or needing clothes and clothe you? When did we see you sick or in prison and go to visit you?’
“The King will reply, ‘Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.’
-Matthew 25:37-40
I live in Washington, DC on Capitol Hill, in the Lincoln Park area. It’s a nice, middle to upper middle class area with typical DC row houses… blocks and blocks of row houses. It’s a nice area- relatively crime free and quiet. My neighbor on the left is a Congressman from Texas, and on the right are two guys with the cutest two little kids. We have court clerks, paramedics, pastors, a tattoo artist and even a Navy pilot, and everyone knows everyone else on the block. It is a small town in a big city.
Most of us in one way or another are involved and engaged in our community. Thanks to DC’s Metropolitan Police Department, there are many ways to stay engaged in the happenings in our enclave, and in our larger police district. It’s not uncommon to get a beep and waive from a passing patrol car, or to have the officers on foot, bike, or Segway patrol stop and see how everything is when they are passing by.
One of the ways we have to communicate with the police is an email list for our district. It is often on that list where you first hear about what the siren was about the evening before; about new community efforts; and the police department’s response (and many times positive results) to requests for increased patrols or attention for a specific problem.
So, over the Christmas Holiday on the police email list, a DC resident complained about how the presence of panhandlers in front of the local grocery store “upset her” and she wanted the store manager, the police, and whoever else to “deal with them” before the area, recently re-vitalized with new construction and this new grocery store, went back to the “old days.”
She expressed concern that shoppers would go somewhere else because of this- assuming that others were as bothered by the presence of panhandlers as she was because their presence made for an “unpleasant environment.”
All this during the Christmas season.
The police response was great. You see, panhandling is not illegal in DC, unless you do so aggressively with a threat of harm, or near an ATM. Likewise, loitering is not illegal in DC. The police did suggest that perhaps if people didn’t give them money, they would move on to another place where people might be more generous. Sensible advice from a well prepared and trained department.
There were other suggestions as well: Can the grocery store file a “Bar Notice” and then the police can arrest them- No. Even a lawyer chimed in and called the person out stating, “I have come to believe that your post represents a horrible trend in this city away from compassion and working toward mutually agreeable solutions that benefit all members of our community, including those less fortunate and educated as you, and toward deploying limited law enforcement resources away from addressing serious crimes in favor of nuisance quality of life issues.” He went on to call her on her “level of compassion…”
Imagine, from a lawyer!
Of course, I had to chime in, so here is what I sent to the woman, the police department, and the grocery store manager:
Why does the idea of someone simply asking for assistance bother people so? Why do so many people on Capitol Hill and its related environs have such a dispassionate attitude and disregard for your fellow man? The elitist attitude on the hill is really much more disturbing than the presence of those who beg for money is.
Is it perhaps that you are not motivated to an ethos of helping someone less fortunate, educated, or well-off as you are? People really need to examine why helping someone who needs it is an issue for you?
If you feel you don’t want to give a panhandler money, then perhaps you can buy them something to eat while you are in the store! That way you will have not vacated your “high moral ground” and “sense of neighborhood character” and can still in some way, feel warmth in that otherwise cold, dead, self-serving soul you walk around with.
While I think there are better ways and more efficient services for the homeless to access and receive those things they need… here in DC, quite literally in the shadow of and blocks from those documents and institutions that allow us to be free and make our own decisions on how to live and comport ourselves, the homeless who put aside their dignity to ask their fellow American for help should be allowed to do so in whatever peaceful manner they choose- which is the spirit of the law here in DC.
Father Mike Seneco
Yea, if you couldn’t have told, I had about enough of this woman’s issue.
What ever happened to helping your fellow man? Where did the Spirit of Christmas go, and why did it go so quickly? Scrooge is certainly alive and living in DC, and apparently he shops at my neighborhood grocer.
It’s obvious that this citizen, who was upset by the mere presence of a panhandler- a fellow human- a child of God, wasn’t really, truly upset by their presence.
I think that what she is in pain. She is in pain because deep down, she does not possess the ability to look beyond her own prejudices and misconceptions and see that this “panhandler,” this life – this gift from God to us all has a real need and she does not care to help.
I think that she is in pain because she may see some of herself in the eyes that stare back at her from behind the momentary glances of hope.
I think she is in pain because she is afraid she may one day be that person- alone, and in need, and that people will ignore her need just as she ignores others today.
We often experience our own personal pain when we recognize the pain of others as being harbored deep inside ourselves. The thing is, we best alleviate our own pain when we help others with theirs, but most people don’t realize that.
The need for food, clothing, warmth, and shelter are all really transitory and temporary. The need to have our pain lifted, which allows us to better understand and receive the creators love is an eternal need of our souls…
Let’s all try to alleviate each other’s pain shall we?
Happy New Year.